Another weekend is over and here I am again writing a journal. It seems I only do a journal either at the end of a week or after a weekend. No weekdays...its just that nothing really happens in the office. I am just experiencing extreme boredom when I work. Nothing to blog about. Saturday came, I must say congratulations to my college friend ( u know who u are, other people might accidentally read this if I'll mention ur name) who successfully delivered a healthy baby girl! I'm so happy for you and congrats for being a certified mum!!!:> Saturday Night, I met jo and geri ( college friends) at bluewave... talked a little about life with few sticks to lighten up the conversation. Then we decided to go to sitcom comedy and laugh our hearts out. Nothing new, but more kabastusan and panlalaitan of the guests. when midnight came, we decided to call it a night. I came home and informed eric I am already safe at home and to my surprise he is ranging with anger since I wasn't able to text him of my plan to go out that night. It stirs feelings ranging from exhaustion to nerve wracking aggravation. whew!!! but i tried to keep my cool and I learned this from him..."wag sabayan ang galit ng isa para di n lumaki ang gulo". Come to think of it, writing about an argument would be beneficial.We have something to reflect on when messages are no longer in my phone memory and the pain of having an argument no longer hurts...something I or eric SHOULD read when we are so much filled with anger for the other person.We tend to get locked into a contest of wills.More often than not, we become so deaf of the other's explanation because we only want to hear what we wanna hear. The best way to handle an argument (especially when you are on the verge of shouting at each other and cursing one another) is to learn to control emotions and LISTEN UP!!!!understanding why the other person is angry and responding appropriately, setting your own anger aside as much as possible. Now talk about maturity...sana ma-apply ko when the right time comes db? d n nga ako masyado maaagalit at manggagalit...luv ko naman c moks e.:) say that again when you're angry mimi...